Participant Obervation


What better social situation to epitomize American culture than the Super Bowl? This weekend was the perfect opportunity for this methods assignment as I participated in the festivities and made observations of my family. I found my experience to be very enlightening. These “field notes” describe my experience:

Mom called me twice Saturday to ask me when my brother and I will be coming home. I could tell she was anxious to be hosting. After the third call Sunday morning, Nick and I drove up to Salt Lake to find the house in a whirlwind of kids wrestling, food preparation, and the usual stress of getting 7 people ready for church. I was immediately given chores –clean the TV room for the game, and help with food prep, while my older brother sat with my dad to discuss football.  After helping my mother and sisters get the kids out the door, we finally made it to church. Down to the wire like a typical Mormon family.

Meanwhile…I was sent back to the house during Sunday school to check on the meat.

After the closing prayer we rushed home to start the festivities. My dad was very anxious to get home, leaving 2 kids behind to walk. They weren’t quick enough I guess.  After arriving home we all changed into comfy clothes and the whirlwind began again. The smells of meatballs, nachos, sandwiches and desserts filled the air along with the voices of annoying sportscasters. Then finally at 4:30, silence fell, and the game began. (That was a joke, it was never silent.)

One of the most interesting parts of this experience was watching my 12-year-old brother. He began the game cheering for the Giants but upon realizing that my Dad was rooting for the Patriots, changed his vote. It was interesting to notice him watch my Dad, following his movements and echoing his cheers. It was clear to see that he idolizes him.

The commercials are the big draw for most non-football fans to watch the Super Bowl. With 30 seconds of airtime costing upwards of 2 million dollars, the commercials are expected to be pretty amazing. My siblings shushed the crowd trying to hear every second of the commercials even though they were advertising products that would probably never be bought by anyone in my family. (Beer, Chryslers, internet domain names, etc.) We live in a materialistic society; the Super Bowl is great proof of that. The halftime show featured Madonna, LMFAO, Nikki Minaj, MIA and Celo Green, all famous performers who symbolize America’s values. In a way I was disappointed to watch my younger sister sing along with the concert, she seems to young for that kind of exposure, but I guess that’s the world we live in.

It is always great to spend time at home, I love my family. I was happy to observe the good things, like children helping their parents, giving up their seat for my grandparents, letting the women eat first and other unwritten rules we expect in our culture. Also, other “Mormon rules” like blessing the food and Family Home Evening after the game. 

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